Veteran Nigerian rapper Ruggedman has opened up about remaining unmarried at 52, pointing to the intense demands of building a music career in the early days and the painful collapse of a long-term relationship he once believed would end in marriage. The artist, whose real name is Michael Ugochukwu Stephens, shared these reflections during a recent radio interview that has quickly drawn attention across entertainment platforms.
Ruggedman explained that he entered the industry at a time when success depended almost entirely on personal hustle, and the grind simply consumed the years.
“I am one of those who got into the industry back in the day where all we had was our hustle and we faced it and before you know it, time was gone,” he said.
He contrasted his experience with that of his contemporary 2baba, noting that the “African Queen” star found partners willing to support him through the challenges of fame.
“2baba was lucky to have found partners who were ready to walk that road with him, I wasn’t that lucky.”
The rapper revealed that he once invested five full years in a relationship he was convinced would lead to the altar. That chapter ended abruptly after an incident he chose not to detail.
“I had a five year relationship that I thought would lead to marriage but something happened and it crashed,” he stated.
He confirmed he is currently single, saying, “Currently, I’m not in any relationship.”
Throughout the conversation, Ruggedman emphasised a personal vow that has guided his choices. He has always wanted marriage and children, yet he remains firm on one non-negotiable principle.
“The only thing I vowed is that I will never have a child out of wedlock,” he declared.
Despite reaching 52 without a wife or children, the veteran artist refuses to accept that the window has closed.
“No, I don’t think it’s too late. It’s never too late. As long as you are alive, it’s never too late to get married,” he insisted.
When the interviewer raised questions about his sexuality, Ruggedman shut down speculation with a clear response:
“I am very straight.”
The interview has sparked conversations among fans who recognise the sacrifices many early Nigerian music pioneers made while carving out careers in a far less structured industry.