BBNaija Season 11 housemate Tram has taken his marriage fight with Italian wife Olivia Binaghi public, posting a long Snapchat rant that accuses her of control, manipulation, and rewriting their story while he shared a bank statement showing more than ₦50 million in transactions over six months.
In the Snapchat story that circulated Tuesday, the Lagos-born streamer and content creator (real name Joshua Alekewumu) said all he ever wanted was peace.
“Shawty wanna own me, shawty wanna tell me what to do, shawty wanna tell me who to be friends with, shawty wants control over the boy. But all the boy ever wanted was peace!” he wrote.
He rejected the idea that the turbulence was normal.
“You tried to convince me that this is what love is. But honestly if this is the madness that comes with love then I’m good I don’t want any of it no more.”
Money sits at the centre of the latest exchange. Tram claimed both of them spent heavily.
“We both spent millions in this relationship but you want a refund?? Are you rude?!”
He also pushed back on claims that she built him, pairing the words with a screenshot of a savings account statement covering 1 June to 1 December 2025. The statement lists total debits of ₦51,847,690.02 and total credits of ₦51,927,148.48. Overlay text on the image reads:
“I Blew 50M+ in 6 months but u come online telling them you built me? STFU!”
On the marriage itself, Tram said it was never his plan to leave Nigeria.
“Married this girl because she wanted to move to come stay with me in Nigeria! I never wanted to JAPA! Idgaf about your Italian passport! I’ve never been to Italy I’m not even interested, in my city I’m treated as a prince. Marriage was the easiest option too much money was going to visas & flights.”
He added that she came to him, not the other way round, and that he had been more than a husband:
“I was more than your therapist your psychologist best friend lover husband name it!”
Olivia’s side of the argument appeared in a video she posted to her own. She claimed her money and her parents’ contribution helped them secure a house.
“I helped your life. It’s thanks to me if we got a house because you were begging me for my money,” she said.
She also alleged he pressured her into marriage by making her feel guilty for hesitating:
“He turned that into psychological… literally saying, ‘Oh, you don’t want to marry me? So you’re here to use me?’”
She challenged him to return what she says she is owed.
The couple’s public friction is not new. Olivia has previously stated that they remain legally married, that Tram blocked her, and that she put trust and money into the relationship.
Tram, who entered the BBNaija house in July 2026 listed as engaged, has spoken inside the house about the practical reasons they married so she could stay with him in Nigeria.