Veteran Nollywood actress and pastor Eucharia Anunobi has issued a fiery warning to women about deceptive men who promise marriage solely to exploit them sexually. In a powerful sermon to her female church members, the actress-turned-pastor slammed such men as “male prostitutes” and urged ladies to guard their bodies until full traditional commitment is made.
Eucharia delivered the tough advice without holding back.
“Male prostitutes, you are here; you will promise girls that you want to marry them, just because you want to use them.”
Turning directly to the women, she continued,
“Dear ladies, do not ever open your treasure for any man just because he says he wants to marry you. Engagement is not marriage. If he wants to marry you, let him come and meet your family members and pay the bride price first.”
The strong message has sparked widespread debate online, with many praising Eucharia for promoting traditional values and self-protection in relationships. Known for her bold, no-nonsense sermons on love, sex, and marriage, the actress has long positioned herself as a spiritual guide. Her latest outburst reflects growing concerns among Nigerian women about men using false marriage promises to gain intimacy without genuine commitment.
This is not the first time Eucharia has spoken candidly on premarital sex and marital expectations. She has previously shared views on compatibility, character flaws, and the risks of rushing into physical relationships based on words alone. In this sermon, she emphasized that engagement rings or verbal promises hold no legal or traditional weight compared to meeting family and fulfilling bride price requirements.
Social media reactions have been swift and divided. Supporters hailed the advice as timely and protective, while critics questioned her generalizations about men or pointed out her own past relationship history. Some commenters joked about the “treasure” reference, but many women echoed her call for caution, sharing personal stories of being misled by similar tactics.
Her message serves as a clear reminder that words alone are never enough—actions, family involvement, and full commitment must come first.