Nigerian media personality Oladotun Ojuolape Kayode, popularly known as Do2dtun, has stirred fresh conversation online following his reaction to the emotional fallout from Roby Ekpo’s crashed marriage. The on-air personality did not hold back as he addressed what he believes many men go through silently in relationships.
Reacting to the situation, Do2dtun delivered a blunt message directed to men that quickly caught attention across social media.
“Listen men, choose yourself.”
He stressed the need for men to stop pouring endlessly into relationships at the expense of their own well-being.
“Love yourself as much you love and care for others.”
His comments come as reactions continue to trail Ekpo’s revelations, which have already sparked widespread debate online.
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Do2dtun also touched on what he described as the dangerous culture of silence among men, urging them to speak up regardless of societal pressure.
“You talk, you die… you don’t talk, you die. So why don’t you just talk.”
The statement has since resonated with many users who say men are often discouraged from expressing emotional struggles.
Do2dtun warned men to be more intentional when choosing partners.
“Marry a kind person or else it’ll be a witch or wizard in full flesh you’ll keep in your house.”
The comment, though dramatic, reflects the intensity of the ongoing conversation around relationships, accountability, and emotional investment.
As expected, reactions to Do2dtun’s stance have been mixed. While some praised him for speaking candidly, others argued that his tone was too harsh. Still, his reaction has added another layer to an already heated discussion, shifting focus toward self-worth, emotional boundaries, and the cost of silence in relationships.