Nollywood actress Etinosa Idemudia has stirred reactions on X after weighing in on a viral conversation about men “lasting too long” during intimacy.
The conversation began after several users complained that extended thrusting was unnecessary, prompting Etinosa to share her unfiltered perspective. According to the actress, 15 minutes is excessive, and she jokingly questioned whether men engaging in such lengthy performance were “digging for gold.”
In her exact words, Etinosa wrote:
“15 mins thrusting is too long IMO. Are you digging for gold? I’m a two minutes girl o. Once I cxm I lose interest so your time starts counting from that point. Sorry for the too much info. Na singleness cause am.”
Her post immediately joined a wave of similar comments from women sharing their views on sexual stamina and preference.
One user, Elizabeth Adewale (@elizaego), agreed with the sentiment, tweeting, “If a man lasts too long, I’d think he doesn’t like me or he’s not attracted to me.” Another user, @just_thlogii, whose tweet triggered the viral thread, wrote, “I really don’t like a man that lasts too long.” Adding her voice, Kamamaa (@MsBrown_Tz) tweeted, “I be pissed AF when they last too long.”
The conversation didn’t end with the ladies as fans also dropped their own takes, some humorous, others critical:
@omahmax said: “The sweetness is when the two both of unaa come together.” @romanqudus commented, “Later when una break up, na still same una go deh cap online say e no dey last long.” @kc_analikwu criticised the trend entirely, saying, “In the midst of chaos in the country, this what full grown adult is throwing up for discussion.”
@randomlifechapters wrote, “At this point, men don confuse o.” @chamberlinnnninit asked, “Who are you to please this gender?” @charlesego3 added, “As a man, always remember that women don’t mean what they say. They want something else and say something else.” @beccaszn kept it short, writing, “Una dey talk oo.”
The conversation has since evolved into a broader discussion about intimacy preferences, compatibility, and whether long or short duration signifies attraction, experience, or disinterest.