Nollywood actress Yvonne Jegede has spoken candidly about why she believes marriage often places heavier burdens on women, sharing insights into her own journey of healing and single motherhood. In an exclusive interview with Anjola Dawodu published by Punch, the mother of one reflected on the pressures that come with relationships and how she has chosen to move forward on her own terms.
Jegede did not sugar-coat her views on the institution of marriage.
“I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again—marriage is overrated. For people who have found happiness in marriage, I’m genuinely happy for them. But from my perspective and within my environment, marriage doesn’t always favour women.”
She acknowledged exceptions but stressed that many women end up carrying unbalanced pressure and expectations.
On the financial burden of marital partnerships, the actress made it clear that providing for a family should never become a contest.
“Providing for a family shouldn’t be about ego or competition. If both partners are responsible for the children, then both should contribute in whatever way they can.”
Jegede added that she has no issue earning more than her partner, as long as the focus remains on the family’s well-being rather than who brings home the bigger income.
Her own marriage and its very public end taught her valuable lessons about privacy and self-worth.
“One major lesson is that you don’t have to let people into your personal life. You don’t owe anyone explanations, especially when your life is already in the public eye.”
Jegede now prioritises living on her own terms and refuses to engage with every opinion thrown her way.
When discussing motherhood, the actress highlighted the importance of a strong support system. She explained that her parents live with her, helping to balance her career and parenting responsibilities.
“I’m fortunate to have a strong support system. My parents live with me, so I’m not raising my son alone in the strict sense. I don’t have someone providing for me, so I have to take responsibility for myself and my child.”
That reality has shaped the kind of work she accepts, always keeping stability for her son at the forefront.
Jegede is deliberate about the values she wants to instil in her child.
“I am raising him to be kind, respectful, and conscious of others. I teach him to treat everyone equally, regardless of gender, religion or status. The goal is to raise a good human being, and that’s the most important thing to me.”
On the subject of healing after her very public relationship challenges, the actress described a simple but powerful approach.
“Healing, for me, is about moving forward. It’s about letting go of the past and not allowing it to define your present. Life comes with different experiences, and holding on to pain only prolongs it. I’ve learnt to dust things off and keep going. That’s how I protect my peace.”
The interview has resonated with many women who see their own experiences reflected in Jegede’s words. As a veteran of Nollywood who has balanced fame, heartbreak and parenting in the spotlight, her message offers both honesty and encouragement. By choosing to focus on her son and her peace, Yvonne Jegede continues to show that life after marriage can be defined by strength, clarity and forward motion rather than regret.