Popular influencer and social media personality Nons Miraj has ignited fresh conversations online after sharing her unapologetic view on how men should show love in relationships.
Speaking on the TeaWithTay podcast, Nons Miraj argued that real love goes beyond sweet words and romantic gestures, insisting that action and responsibility are the true proof of affection.
According to her, one of the clearest ways a man can demonstrate love is by providing security and stability for his partner and in some cases, her family.
“You’re attracted to this type of girl, how do you show you love her? How do you show you care?” she asked during the conversation. “You move her and her family out of where they’re staying. Yes, rent a place for them.”
She went further by painting a practical scenario to drive her point home.
“If you’re talking to a girl outside the country, and you like her, and her house is leaking, won’t you rent a place for her?”
For Nons Miraj, stepping up financially is not about showing off wealth but about intentional care and commitment, especially when a man truly sees a future with a woman.
Her remarks quickly gained traction on social media, triggering mixed reactions. While some listeners applauded her emphasis on responsibility and provision as a love language, others pushed back, arguing that love should not be reduced to financial capacity or material support.
Critics warned that such views could encourage entitlement in relationships, while supporters maintained that love without action is incomplete.
As the debate continues, Nons Miraj’s comments have once again placed her at the center of Nigeria’s ever-evolving relationship discourse, proving that conversations about love, money, and responsibility remain as heated as ever.