Nigerian TikTok star and content creator, Jarvis, has shared a deeply emotional story about her relationship with Peller, revealing how his words about her late father left her heartbroken.
Speaking during a livestream, Jarvis disclosed that her partner once told her he would stop loving and never marry her again if she reunited with her father.
“Peller told me that anything that makes me see your Dad, I will not love you again, I will not marry you again… no be story we dey hear say no be papa and daughter dey do,” she recounted. “Immediately he said that, I ended the call and broke down.”
The TikToker explained that she was simply trying to open up about her family and emotions when he made the comment.
“If you really love me, won’t you want to know where I’m from? My family? Or even my Father?” she asked.
Jarvis said his statement felt insensitive and made her question how he truly viewed her.
“He said something so delicate without remorse. It might look like a joke to you guys, but I thought—how does this guy really see me?”
According to her, Peller’s attitude had long been controlling, masked as affection.
“He has always been so authoritative, always saying, ‘no one should touch you, don’t do this and that, my baby, my baby.’ I thought he was being protective, but it became too much,” she revealed.
She also noted that he rarely took her emotions seriously.
“What I noticed about Peller is that once I share something delicate about me, he doesn’t take me serious. Instead, he says things that get me angry.”
Fighting back tears, Jarvis said she had to pause and reflect on what love truly means.
“I had to sit down and talk to myself. If someone really loves me, would he say that kind of thing about my dad? Someone I’m still longing to see? I don’t have father love, but I feel if I had it, the nonsense that Peller is doing, he wouldn’t do it.”
The video has since sparked reactions online, with fans sharing words of concern and advice.
@useful_herbs wrote, “I feel you’re too young for a relationship that stresses you this much.” @dipoetc added, “Parents please love your children. We get why…” While @nan__cy20 commented, “Too much information yet they’ll still reconcile. Children in relationships.”
