Bamike Olawunmi Adenibuyan, popularly known as BamBam on Big Brother Naija, has recounted her traumatic childhood experience with her nanny and ex-lovers.
In a heartfelt video posted online, the reality TV star and mother of two revealed that her nanny sexually abused her as a child.
She claimed the abuse occurred from the age of two to eight, and she was unable to confide in her parents because the nanny threatened her.
According to BamBam, the abuse left her with trauma that she is still dealing with even though she is married.
She explained that the nanny used to make her suck her breasts and masturbate with her fists.
Speaking further, BamBam revealed that she was raped a few times by men she dated in the past. BamBam said in part:
“I Was Abused by a Nanny as a child between the ages of 2-8. she used my fist to masturbate and forced me to suck her breast while at it, it has affected me in different ways.
I have also been raped a few times as a young girl, I wasn’t ready to have sex with some of the guys I dated in the past, so they forced themselves on me. during sex some things trigger trauma I didn’t know wasn’t dealt with, I have gotten help, I still get help.
Look sex MUST be consensual even in marriage! Sex must be consensual at all times! Don’t manipulate a mind into it! Not to talk of children?!!! I stand against PEDOPHILIA CHILD TRAFFICKING, CHILD MOLESTATION AND ABUSE/ SEX INDOCTRINATION OF ANY-FORM!
Hurt and mentally sick people hurt other people! That nanny was clearly abused or possessed and felt it was okay to do all she did to me! We have sick people making laws to permit their sick orientations! Make it stop!!!”